Mid-Year Check-In on 23 in 23 List
This essay originally appeared in the Monday morning newsletter on 7/3/23.
Did you know that yesterday (July 2) marked the halfway point of 2023?
July 2 is the 183rd day of the year; 182 days remain until the end of the year.
I’d love to know what you think: does being halfway through 2023 feel right to you? Some years by July, I can’t believe six months have flown by; some years it feels like I’ve lived more than six months (the year 2020 comes to mind).
This year I’m somewhere in the middle. When I think about everything that’s happened since January, six months feels like the right amount of time. But where I’m struggling is not having a handle on what the next six months look like. When 2023 started, I put a lot of thought into January – now. And I had to with things like trips, weddings, an apartment move, on the horizon. But I don’t have the same handle on July – December (with the exception of the month of September). Crossing the halfway point of the year is a good catalyst to consider the upcoming months and my plans.
One of my favorite activities to do another this time of year is to check in on my 23 in 2023 list, or the list of 23 things I want to do this year. I’ve done these mid-year check-ins for the past couple of year (like in 2022 and 2021). It’s always a good opportunity to remind myself of aims for this year and/or adjust the list as needed (plans change!).
During some of the holiday time early this week maybe you want to check in on your 23 in 2023 list, make a new list for the second half of the year, or just reflect on what matters most for these next couple of months. Sharing my check-in below in case it helps.
23 in 2023 List: Mid-Year Check-In
Send New Year’s cards!Done!Get my eyes checkedDid this too, yay!- Read 40 books I’ve read 28 books so far this year, so am track for this aim. My favorite books read this year (so far) include Marriage Portrait, Free Time and Fifth Avenue Glamour Girl.
- Try Corepower Yoga Trying my first class next week!
- Get espresso cups to use with my Nespresso Forgot about this
- Visit EUROPE for the first time!! IT’S HAPPENING! Going to Ireland in September
- Limit the amount of time I spend mindlessly on my phone I think, generally, I’ve limited the amount of time, but hoping my intention of a screen-free summer (where possible) helps
Add something new to the newsletterPicture of the week!- Visit my company’s NYC office Haven’t done this… maybe in October?
Save for Christmas shopping in advanceYES! Have an automatic deposit set up so I don’t even have to think about it. One of those “why haven’t I always done this??” thingsGo on a trip with Matt!Yes! We went to Charleston in February and had a great time.- Run my first half marathon (!!) Registered for one on September 24 – EEK!
- Call family members at least once a week Generally been doing this, but good to remind for myself
- Invest in buying a new iPad or personal computer Prioritizing different things. Don’t think this is going to happen this year.
- Visit San Antonio to meet my friend’s baby I have met the baby but haven’t made it to San Antonio. Would like to!
- Start wearing a mouth guard at night I did the impressions kit with an online service called Remi but still waiting for my mouth guard – will be a relief once this is part of my routine!
- Hit a personal savings goal Working on it!
- Make a list of 100 dreams Completely forgot about this one. Will complete by end of year!
- Find a good card game for two players My friends were talking about Monopoly Deal, so Matt and I recently got it and tried it out. It’s fun!
- Go to the Northwestern-Penn State game with my parents! Happening in September
- Track the clothes I wear to figure out cost-per-wear Haha, I did this for the month of January and stopped. At first, I found it fascinating but then lost interest.
- Participate in the packing of brown bag lunches with Old St. Pat’s at least once Need to do.
- Try doing a weekly “Schultz hour” Have done this here and there but not consistently – would like it (an hour with no distractions) to become part of my routine